Overcoming Obstacles

Many clinicians are unaware of the potential side effects of compassion exercises in individuals with high levels of shame and attachment trauma. As Paracelsus noted, “It is only the dose which makes a thing a poison or a remedy.” These side effects often manifest as blocks and fears to compassion.

Through my work with clinicians, I’ve noticed that this oversight stems from a developmental process in learning to embody compassion from within. Clinicians often project their experiences onto clients without considering the unique attachment conditioning of each individual. Additionally, a lack of embodiment of common humanity can hinder attunement. This can be remedied by internalizing the lessons of Module One and Two before progressing to Module Three. Self-Compassion is not merely a technique; it represents a compassionate relationship with our suffering that unlocks innate wisdom and self-healing.

Module Three has been designed to safely and effectively integrate self-compassion into therapy for clients with high shame, attachment trauma, and low mentalization. My extensive clinical experience supports this approach (Braehler et al., 2013a,b; Braehler& Neff, 2020; Braehler, 2023). You’ll learn key theories, research findings, and practical principles to effectively implement compassion training tailored to each client’s attachment experiences. Remember Krishnamacharya’s words:

“Teach what is within you. Not as it applies to you, but as it applies to the one in front of you.”